"Perumpamaan orang yang mengingat(berzikir kepada) Rabbnya dengan yang tidak mengingat Rabbnya adalah seperti orang yang hidup dengan orang yang mati" (HR Al-Bukhari)

Tuesday, July 11, 2023

SAMBUT - Fimie Don & Faizal Tahir


https://youtu.be/HAGUjI4108E


Sampai aku mati buat untuk tuhan (hey)

Sampai aku mati buat untuk tuhanSampai aku mati buat untuk tuhanSampai aku mati buat untuk tuhan
Senyap, tolong senyap sebentarNikmati sunyi ini sebelum dunia bergegarAku masih gentarRisau doa dipagarTulisan makin pudarAku separa sedarYa, aku sedar
Bila disua ku sambutSambut kerna takutTakut nanti nyawa aku dicabutRamai yang perlu wang tapi tak ada peluangJika diberikan ruang ku sahut
Mengapa masih ada persoalkan kerja tuhanSetuju jabat tangan, ini zaman kejatuhanMengapa aku masih ada dengarkan keluhanSetuju lintas jambatan, aku nak kejar tuhan
Selagi badan ada kudratAku takkan pernah rehatAku tak kenal erti penatEngkau pembakar semangat hingga ke garisan penamatUsaha mencari rezeki untuk terus ku berjalanSampai aku mati buat untuk tuhan
Kalau ini hari bukan hari akuEsok kan pasti ada aku menungguYeah, pasti ada hari kamuAda hari dia juga dan aku, hari aku
Segenggam beras macam sejongkong emasWajah puas kamu umpamakan barang kemasAtas kertas angka hasil mereka kerja kerasGalas cergas tolak malas gagal tetap puas
Ni, gelanggang dunia tempat ku bertarungEtika hilang anak muda kau tak hormat panggungRamai yang jalan mendongak dan harap disanjungGarisan penamat makin hampir, kau jangan termenung
Aman nak sihat, aman tak cukup sifatRamalan tak buatkan aku makin kuatAman nasihat, amanah genggam eratEkspresi hak perasaan jangan pernah kau daulat, yeah
Terima kasih harap kasih diterimaAku selesai segala selagi jasad ada nyawaSelagi jasad ada nyawa harap kasih dipergunaAku sambut jika disua (jika kau sua)
Selagi badan ada kudratAku takkan pernah rehatAku tak kenal erti penatEngkau pembakar semangat hingga ke garisan penamat(Nak usaha) Usaha mencari rezeki untuk terus ku berjalanSampai aku mati buat untuk tuhan
Kalau ini hari bukan hari aku (haha)Esok kan pasti ada aku menunggu (pasti)Yeah, pasti ada hari kamuAda hari dia juga dan aku (aku), hari aku
Sampai aku mati buat untuk tuhan (hey)Sampai aku mati buat untuk tuhanSampai aku mati buat untuk tuhan (yup, sambut)Sampai aku mati buat untuk tuhan

Eternal

 Salam

Hows everyone?


Look like adulting kind of busy eh?

Senyap sunyi je blog pun hahaha. Lama dah tak update. Tapi mayb jugak sbb factor tu.



Been wanting/missing to blog, tapi selalu rasa macam tak semangat nak tulis macam dulu.




Eh kamon la, apa bunyi macam tua sangat dah ni haaaa? Gaya cakap dah macam mak-mak yang busy urus anak sekolah je ahahah. Tolong la, baru kahwin je kot, jauh lagi untuk rasa tua gitu hahahaha


(Tetiba teringat realiti………… in a few years akan masuk geng 30s)

*gulp*






Anyway, hoping everyone, my friends, families, especially yang dah lama tak jumpa tu, semoga dalam keadaan yang baik-baik je. Sihat, bahagia, tenang. Itu yang paling penting sekarang ni. Not your achievements in comparison to others. Semoga kita saling mendoakan (walaupun aku lah yang selalu lupa tau nak doakan orang aduhai haha)



Hoping that dring these times, kita semua dapt belajar mendewasa dengan baik, bertumbuh dengan baik. Dapat belajar manage emosi, diri, kewangan, hidup dengan baik. Dapat jaga diri sendiri dengan baik, that;s good enough for the time being insyaAllah (sbb mesti lah kena makin better by time kan hehe). Since sekarang ni zaman where its medsos here and there, kerja-kerja kerja. Semoga setiap apa yang kita buat tu, bererti dan memberi erti kepada kita.



Coz,

In the end,

this is life has and end




And then only,

will we only enter the final destination

And I hope

I really hope

I will be accepted into that paradise

And will be rejoining with you guys again :)



How I miss those kind of gatherings

Seeing those familiar faces and smiles




Seperated for now,

To make efforts

For that worth it gathering







Ayuhlah berusaha

Wahai jiwa yang malas (talking to me not you hehe)




See you guys in the eternals insyaAllah :D

Oh and i left a song lyric, tributed to you guys in the next post :)

Boring

 20230621 0917pm, atas katil, home :)


Harini terasa kebosanan

Bila nak rehat dari buat kerja rumah sikit n dalam masa yang sama taknak buang masa


Kebetulan pulak tengah 10 hari terbaik di dunia! (10 Awal Zulhijjah)


So hmm lepas mesej sana-sini apa yg patut kat WhatsApp, main socmed sambil tunggu suami balik. Nasi dah masak, ayam tengah masak dalam oven


Habis buat kerja dalam 2 jam, taknak sambung walaupun ada momentum sebab suami dah balik & taknak nanti diri sendiri overwork & stress (selalu terlebih rajin bila ada semangat sampai rasa macam lightheaded etc gitu)


Lepastu sebelum mengaji mengadu kat husband, kebosanan. dan dalam kebosanan tu tetap tak tau apa yang saya nak buat


Bila suami cadang baca buku etc, tak terasa nak buat semua tu


Yelah, mungkin sebab dah seharian buat kerja sendiri. Got no one to talk to. Plus I'm not good at talking to myself i guess & talking to plants (teringat Afa)


So lepastu sambung ajar budak mengaji. Habis mengaji terfikir, maybe actually I needed to work with the society more, in order to get my social capacity fulfilled & at the same time giving back to the society, which is something that is quite fun & not time wasting for me :D


Feeling delighted.




Then, maybe itulah hikmahnya Allah jadikan kita manusia ni makhluk yang ada aspek sosial, perlu bersembang, tak cukup duduk sorang-sorang je dalam rumah fikir hal rumah sendiri huhu


Yelah, kita ni pun kalau sembang dengan suami, suami dah habis kuota, kita banyak lagi ayyy



Kan ke tak seimbang tu

Jadi ada baiknya i fikir² benda macamtu kan?


Samada i give back to the society, or I learn something from them (learning new skills etc)




That's an interesting outcome of today's boredom!


Well doneeeee 👍




Walaupun asyik cakap bosan despite buat banyak benda harini, rasa kelakar pulak hahaha




Btw, bosan pun ada sebabnya.

Thanks for coming, boredom ;)

Wednesday, August 10, 2022

3 years of gratitude

 Salam,


writing this here today, as a remembrance and memory of how things have been going in my life these months..

okay maybe we can rewind back to when I was in the exam hall of my last paper for my degree. That day, it was Dec 2019 and I've finally-unofficially-graduated from the university and finally free. That last semester makes up all my degree journey into a total of years (many of my friends graduated one semester earlier -which i could do the same but i'm chosen and i chose to cewahh)


okay, then 2020 begins and started to be a full-time babysitter for my niece and nephew, since i'm the only who's free and available at that time. and then... march came and the lockdown began. so as i remembered, it was quite fun and boring.. especially when it has been too long to the point that i actually convinced my mom that i need to have an artificial grass-carpet to put it either on our balcony or the front yard. and that is for the sake of my mental well-being hahaha. but the boringness is so unbearable that i feel like running on a field of grass, going to the rives and forest and so on.


but there's these few things that happened to me around 2020;

1. first time baking (it's a chocolate moist cake bake using periuk nasiiiiiiiiiiii wahahaha) & bake a few times (basque burned cheesecake) (selain kek batik). i don't remember if i've baked anythings else than those two, except that i've been wanting to bake the brownies but haven't done it yet hehe

2. get to discover some health problems & start to treat them

3. started to play in taman baru & depan rumah

4. emotionally unstable phase


whilst  2021;

1. get to discover another health problem.

2. therefore, i've been going back and forth to the hospitals for appointments & even got the chance to meet an expert. under treatment

3. oh and gigi bongsu actually started to 'tunjuk taring' to the point that i feel like having this shark's teeth in my mouth and that hurts. and eventually getting them unplugged hehe

4. learn about me - related to the appointments

5. getting one my biggest health problem treated & still under treatment

6. many friends started kahwin, kahwin n kahwin

7. learning about emotions - since i'm an emotional person. this is a new experience -feeling numb when i thought like "should'nt I feel mad/sad etc?"

8. actually get to do taaruf and get married OMG. kahwin PKP pulak tuu

9. get a chance to level-up

10. 


and that's what i remember..

yeah, my 2020 is a year of confusion,

2021 is a year of healing

2022 is growth, i guess? and i hope so



actually i just remembered that during the 2nd half of 2019, i actually wanted to get myself a caving time (that's how frust i am with myself? because i'm stressed over how do i improve myself).


and during that period of time is also the moment when i realized that something's wrong with this particular circle's work enviroment (in which i'm involved in). and that's when the strong emotions turn into an idea that both me and my usrahmate (esp this one akak) fight for. and i did'nt know that passion can go that far OMG. like, there's just these 4 people fuelling the circle. that's totally a new experience, alhamdulillah :)



okay, back to 2021.

that healing period made me realize that, calmness is part of what makes you to have the ability to function better.

i've heard this one sister who shares how she overcomes her anxiety (if i'm not mistaken) by waking up in the middle of the night for tahajjud and that heals her, alhamdulillah.


this sharing then clicks with my feeling of calmness and peace that i've been feeling after undergoing treatments for myself. okay, it's actually numbness of emotions, but somehow when you can't feel sad etc, you sort of like, feel calm, you know?


so i guess the key is to have inner peace which can be acquired though different ways - since as a human, we have 4 domain (physical body, psychosocial, spiritual and cognitive mind)


but anyway i can't speak much about it since i'm not an expert in the field. but anyway, i found this one book written by prof Hatta Shaharom, on 7-day Stress Relief Plan which is interesting (it cover all 4 domains and about stress), but i have'nt finish reading it yet. maybe i shall share it somewhere when i'm done and ready :)






and this year of 2022, i...

1. got to travel using different kind of transportations which is exciting to me since i like adventureee (flight, ferry, kereta sewa, bus, ets, lrt, ktm, grab, kereta orang bagi pinjam) and go here n there with husband

2. got to experience kereta rosak, kereta masuk kedai etc

3. experience jadi cikgu sekolah rendah for 3-4 months and experiencing the pain of RPH hahahaha

4. learn to control the way i think and how i see/face problems. started gratitude journaling this few days alhamdulillah

5. get to organize my own house, learn kitchen hacks, started to be like hantu eco hahaha (okay please pray i don't become like that okay.. just want to be minimalist hehe insyaAllah)

6. started ajar mengaji, iqra and hafazan in short period of time and it is online!!!!!! (which is kind of perfect job for me alhamdulillah)

7. got a new 24/7 friend and husband alhamdulillah. there's a lot to be thankful and grateful for him, tapi takpe kita taknak sweet mweet di sini yaa

8. belajar hadap masalah2 kehidupan hehehe


and that's what i can think of since my memories macam tak berapa nak ingat hehe.

and as I said earlier... this post is like a gratitude journal for me.

but maybe not for you, who's reading this...


because gratitude happens when we look into ourselves and be happy and grateful for what we have/had/insyaAllah will have.


so this is an exercise for me to remember all those things happened in my life this past 3 years. and may this writing exercise makes me forever grateful to you o Allah, and towards everyone in my life too  :)






Monday, May 9, 2022

Entering 26th and still learning..

it feels almost like a trap

that I need to learn on how to make my way out of it


there is a way,

or ways 


it's just that,

you need to stop using the same method again and again


there's this quote that says

Albert Einstein : “Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.”



it's time for you to learn this one dear self



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turning 26th this Wednesday

and got many things to learn




Wednesday, March 9, 2022

Perasaan


I do sometimes wonder,


if I'll be able to remember much of these days,

since i'm kind of emotionless,

and not like how I used to be



tapi kan,

mesti ada sebab Allah letak aku dalam situasi ni,

fasa perasaan tak terlalu kuat



tapi entah untuk apa,

aku sendiri tak tahu untuk apa



but somehow, I kind of can feel this song though;

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TA9raOpgtTE



and that's why i started writing this post haha


cause this is some of the few occasions where somehow, my bag of emotion kinda spilled a little bit i guess


there's the other few where I suddenly cried haha,

one of it was after having a video call with my sibs, niece and nephew


that is when I realized,

oh I actually kind of miss them

which I thought, I haven't



but maybe it's just that my bottle was wrapped up so tightly that I can't feel big emotions


there's even a phase where my sisters said that my laugh sounds fake everytime I laugh, although I do mean that laugh

seems like it even takes away the sound of sincerity in my laugh hahaha



......................................................




despite it all,

I do want to feel my emotions


entah la,

mungkin selama ni aku tak bersyukur dengan perasan-perasan yang Allah hadirkan dalam diri aku?



but, I'm missing them already

I miss crying while watching or listening to touching stories

miss that joy of seeing foods brought home by my parents or siblings

that feeling of sadness when I'm going to depart away from the people I cherish

feeling moved by the gestures of kindness when someone cares for you

having a good cry every month for sometimes even no reason to cry at all 



somehow,

i'm still grateful for everyone around me, those who stays with me, be it physically or not

who're always kind to me :')



perhaps,

I've been too emotional that it affects what I should be doing? is it?

should I be that way? Is that part of adulting?

idk



somehow,

my emotions kind of spilled a few times this past months

is it good or bad sign?

i have no idea



but I always believe,

everything that befalls a believer is all good,

as long as he/she believes

and I hope it will always stay that way :')





don't leave in my own hands o Allah...






Wednesday, January 19, 2022

i'm back and it's 2022 already wow

 Salam,


it's 2022 already. and i'm turning 26th this year. WOW

that number looks so into adult phase thingy. orang dewasa, besar hahaha


entah berapa kali word besar ni saya asyik ulang taip dalam blog ni, semenjak form 5, i guess?

haha. tapi, sejauh mana awak dah membesar dalam aspek-aspek lain selain fizikal tu awak? hmm good question


anyway, banyak benda berlaku in these recent years

especially tahun lepas, 2021


aah sebenarnya not in the mood untuk menulis sangat pun.

entahlah, few months back ni dah tak rasa nak menulis sangat. macam, mood tu hilang. even kadang ada je idea nak tulis, tapi tak tertulis jugak.


tadabbur pun, aahhh. lamanya tak buat reflect hmm.


btw, ni pun push jugak diri menulis sebab i think it's time for me to start walking again. hmm berjalan walaupun tak ada rasa nak jalan. trying to build momentum slowly, i guess



teringat mertua cakap, nak tulis ni, kena konsisten, tulis je walaupun tak ada idea.




eh tetiba ana mertua pulak kan hahahaha. so panjang ceritanya. ha tulah, kalau diikutkan, boleh je buat few posts. tapi mungkin keadaan sekarang ni buat semangat saya biasa-biasa aja haha.


because I used to be someone yang semangat bercerita, since my memories quite strong jugak and yeah I'm an emotional person. and emotions are what makes things go into long-term memory, isn't it? that's what I can recall from Intro to Psychology class that i took waktu kat uni dulu.


tapi entahlah, kalau orang baca cara saya tulis ni, mungkin orang akan fikir saya dalam keadaan yang tak okay, walaupun saya okay je sebenarnya. hmmmm susah nak cakap, it's complicated.


senang cerita, saya okay je despite what I writes here hahaha. nak tau lebih kenapa cerita tepi lolol.


fuhh ni baru intro, tak masuk lagi nak cerita apa (idk if I even write that much hmm)

hmmm i guess I'll stop here. esok lusa ke kita cuba lagi eh insyaAllah haha.

pancit dah haha